Safe, Joyful, & Resilient: A Mini Child Safety Guide

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$26.99

Confidently raise kids that ✨naturally✨ repel predators.

This Child Safety Guide gives parents the foundation to raise their child with the 5 key skills and traits that keep them safe, joyful, and resilient from early childhood through adulthood.

This guide is for parents with kids of all ages who:

  • Want to confidently raise children who are resilient to challenges such as harmful tech, substance use, vaping, peer pressure, bullying, frenemies, predators, and more
  • Want quick insights with practical examples that can be implemented immediately.
  • Don’t believe in fear-based parenting tactics.
  • Are looking for a template for safety and connectedness that they may not have had in childhood.

What’s inside:

  • Activities I created for my own kids drawing from my background in Law Enforcement Intelligence, Anti-Human Trafficking, and Mental Health to teach pattern recognition that helps them immediately identify safe people and healthy relationships.
  • Scripts from real conversations, plus the thought process behind them so you can adapt them to fit your child’s age and stage of development.
  • Traditional child safety approaches, why they don’t always work, and what I’m doing instead.

Inspired by the viral Threads posts read by millions of parents around the world.

“Loved this Mini Guide! A Must Read for every parent no matter what stage of life your child is in. Very quick & easy read, yet packed with so many fundamentals for your littles.” -Erika, Mom of 3

I’m reading through the guide and I’m loving it so far!Never thought about teaching from highlights of healthy/unhealthy relationships. That’s awesome! Also caused me to think about how my relationships have room for growth!” –BroAm H., USAF Veteran & Dad of 3

“[My kindergartener] has a little girl in her class who isolates my daughter from others and bosses her around. So your book has been AMAZING at having these convos about friendships.
And it’s helped me too to realize I’ve had some not so healthy relationships that I needed to end too 🥲 thank you for the work that you’re doing!” -Fiorella T.

This is a digital product. You will receive the downloadable files in both EPUB and PDF immediately upon purchase.

Double your impact with my Buy One Gift One Program—for each copy purchased, one is gifted to a survivor or parent of a survivor.
To a request a gifted copy, email connect@francescadf.com

Read an excerpt...

"Safe vs. Unsafe People
In addition to the traditional child safety tips above, I teach them the following:

  1. Safe people are consistently kind. They are not warm one moment and then cold the next. You know exactly what to expect from them the next time you see them. And even when they are hurt and frustrated, they are still kind.
  2. Safe people do not hurt others intentionally. And when you tell them that they hurt you, they apologize and make an effort not to do it again.
  3. Safe people are good at respecting boundaries. They will not try to convince you to change your No to a yes. If you set a boundary, they will listen to it even if they don’t agree with it.

Now, when you think of predators, bullies, toxic partners, and frenemies, none of them would pass this “safety test”. This knowledge will also help them determine who has the potential to be a great friend.

In the context of mean kids at school, I also teach them that not everyone will like them and they will not like everyone—and that’s ok! Sometimes we don’t want someone to like us because it means that we are not aligned. This has greatly helped my preteen navigate bullies and avoid frenemies like the plague. Once someone isn’t kind (to her or others), she decides immediately that she doesn’t like them, never stopping to wonder why they don’t like her."

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Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know before you get your copy.

What age is this guide for?

This guide is for parents with kids of all ages — from early childhood through the teen years. The scripts and activities are designed to be adapted to your child’s specific age and stage of development, so whether you have a toddler or a preteen, you’ll find something you can use right away.

Is this a physical book or a digital download?

This is a digital product. Immediately after purchase you’ll receive download links for both a PDF and an EPUBfile, so you can read it on your phone, tablet, computer, or e-reader. No shipping, no waiting.

How long is it? Will I actually have time to read it?

Yes! This is a focused guide that is intentionally concise so you can read it quickly and start implementing the same day. Think of it as a practical framework, rather than a textbook. Parents describe it as a quick read that is “packed with fundamentals.”

Does this use fear-based tactics?

Not at all. The approach focuses on building traits and skills in your child that naturally help them identify safe people and healthy relationships, so safety becomes something they carry within them as part of who they are.

What makes this different from other child safety resources?

Most child safety advice focuses on stranger danger or digital rules. This guide goes deeper, drawing on my unique upbringing and professional background in Law Enforcement Intelligence, Anti-Human Trafficking, and Forensic Psychology to teach kids how to recognize patterns of unsafe behavior in anyone, including people they know. It also addresses friendships, self-relationship, and emotional safety — not just physical threats.

What is the Buy One Gift One program?

For every copy purchased, one is gifted to a survivor or parent of a survivor. Your purchase directly doubles its impact. To request a gifted copy, email connect@francescadf.com.

Can I get a discount?

Yes! Newsletter subscribers receive $5 off. Subscribe here to get your discount code before purchasing.

What if I have more questions?

Reach out anytime at connect@francescadf.com—my team and I are happy to help.

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